I Went Back

I Went Back

To where I have never been.

AARP magazine published several articles about various US Citizens wanting to get closer to and learn more about their Heritage. This has become more typical with the US Baby Boomers and yes those of the early Gen X ers.

Now that retirement is here or nearing to the largest segment of our population, I guess it’s that time in life where a person is compelled or simply curios to learn more about themselves (a fulfillment of sorts, maybe something they had on their bucket list) and the Heritage that belongs to them.

I experience this years ago when I visited my Grandmothers family in Regalbuto, Sicily. Nonna Vincenza was the oldest of her siblings born in 1899. I met her youngest sister Concetta there. Although years apart the two sisters had a strong resemblance to one another. At dinner one evening with my Aunt, my eyes teared up. I An amazing feeling of contentment, feel over me likely a  transference of the Love I had for Grandma who raised me during my early years   We stayed at Aunt Concetta’s house for the week and explored the small town. We sent to the gravesites where my Grandparents  and Great-Great Grandparents were buried. Talk about an emotional experience!

We met many family members, mostly my Mother’s first cousins. I was excited to spend time in my cousin Vito’s home, the house where my Grandmother was born. Vito was raising rabbits on his little farm. We walked to the Chiesa Madre at the town center where my Grandmother and her mother and father were baptized.

An addendum to that experience.

I learned that my Grandfather Giuseppe, Vincenza’s husband whose mother was very ill was taken in and cared for by Vincenza’s family in Regalbuto. That was in the 1940’s, when my Grandfather and Grandmother lived here in the US.

Then I learned that My Great Grandmother, Vincenza’s mother Vita (my mother’s name) passed away in Sicily in 1950. I was two years old at the time. That information had me frozen in thought. Can’t explain!.

It’s been many years since I’ve been in Regalbuto. I don’t know that I am eager to live what will be different experiences if I return.

Maybe I will!

Please share your thoughts and experiences here.

Your Host @ Heritage Coinwear

Don (Dominic)  Panebianco,


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